Saturday, 20 December 2008
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Relationships
Just a week ago my boyfriend of 10 months ended the relationship. I was heartbroken of course. Sure I was attracted to another guy, but I never did act upon it and was working on dealing with those feelings and seeing why I was having them to my conclusion it was because I wasn't getting enough attention from boyfriend and other guy gives me a ton. So I dealt with that issue: don't give other guy too many chances to give me attention and spend more time with boyfriend if possible.
So anyway I thought things were going good between us. We had an honest relationship to the point where I was comfortable admitting the attraction and that nothing would ever happen because of my love for boyfriend, and he admitted attraction to another woman and agreed that didn't take the love he felt for me away. It did jeopardize our relationship; that was a while ago. We saw each other for Bible Study and things felt weird he was distant and not really looking me in the eye. Which was weird because he always looked me in the eye and even his kisses were different and the way he said goodbye to me. When I talked to him about it he said he was dealing with some things and issues and was thinking you know. I won't say what they were out of respect for him.
Well we saw each other on Saturday and things were of course awkward because after the convo we had two days prior was still on my head...I needed to absorb and deal with what was said. Well he said it was too weird and broke up with me that night. I was in tears. He told me I was a once in a lifetime kind of girl; i asked so why are you letting me go. blah blah blah. It boils down to he started to think of a future with me and us being married and he saw too many hardships that we wouldn't be able to handle and then after all his thinking for weeks without talking to me....he no longer sees a future with me. Can't picture us being married with children the way he was just 4 weeks ago.
BUUUUUT he still calls me every night and is coming over today because he wanted to exchange gifts. Last night he asked if I wanted to go to dinner tonight. Which was odd I mean I know he wants to stay friends and all but to call me every day and then want to take me to dinner...doesn't that sound a little bit odd to you guys?
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Comments (4)
he calls you everyday and you two talk and share the ideas.
there still are room for repairing the relationship.
keep the prayer
actually there isn't he already told me he doesn't see a future with me anymore and that there is no hope of getting together again in the future.
It sounds like he isn't completely ready to let go of you if he's making the effort to call every night and asking you to dinner...if having him close hurts you after the break up, tell him. And I wish you two the best of luck, because ending things with someone you've been with for nearly a year is one of the hardest things to deal with. Be strong!
I'm sorry to hear that. I agree with the person above.. if there's no chance of you two ever getting back together & having him constantly in contact with you is a hindrance to you moving on, then let him know. You might have to cut him out of your life for a bit.. as difficult as it may be. =T It's especially difficult when you two discussed serious issues & were together for almost a year. Good luck!